Manifesting Love: 5 Myths Blocking Your Soulmate Energy (and How to Rewire Them)
🌟 Episode 33 – Manifesting Love: 5 Myths That Block Soulmate Energy
Welcome back to Vibrations and Manifestations! In Part 2 of our four-part Manifestation Myth-Busting Series, we’re diving deep into love, connection, and the sneaky energetic beliefs that might be keeping your heart stuck in a holding pattern.
Whether you're partnered, single, friendship-focused, or just tired of dating your trauma in different hats—this episode will help you decode and rewire the five most common love myths using a potent blend of:
💖 Abraham Hicks emotional guidance
🧠 Joe Dispenza brain-heart coherence
🧘♀️ Silva Method mental rehearsal
📚 Psychology + Neuroscience (attachment theory, trauma bonds, oxytocin, and more!)
✨ Includes a guided visualization to align with your future love frequency—romantic or otherwise. Because love isn’t just one flavor. It’s a whole menu.
🔥 In this episode:
Why self-love isn't a prerequisite to being loved
The difference between obsession and alignment
How to stop waiting for the “effortless romcom relationship”
Why being single doesn’t mean you’re incomplete
How to release shame around wanting connection
A deep dive into the science of manifestation and love
Guided practice: Future You in Love visualization
💌 Comment below:
Which myth hit you the hardest?
And what’s one aligned action you’ll take this week in your love life (or your friend life, or your self-love life—we’re here for it all)? 👇
🔮 Subscribe for more episodes in the series:
Ep 32: Manifesting Money – 5 Myths That Keep You Broke (Energetically)
Ep 34: Healing Myths That Hold You Back (coming soon)
Ep 35: There’s No One Right Way to Manifest (coming soon)
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00:00 Welcome Back: Love Myth-Busting Begins
01:10 What This Episode Is About (And Who It’s For)
03:00 Alicia & Jared’s Personal Love Stories
06:57 Myth #1: “I Need to Fully Love Myself First”
08:50 The Science of Self-Compassion & Healing in Relationship
10:04 Myth #2: “My Soulmate Is the Person I Can’t Stop Thinking About”
11:45 Obsession vs. Alignment: Trauma Bonds, Dopamine, and the DMN
13:28 Myth #3: “True Love Should Be Effortless”
14:58 Real Love = Aligned Action + Emotional Courage
16:50 Myth #4: “You Need a Romantic Partner to Be Happy”
18:20 The Power of Friendship, Community & Chosen Family
19:38 Myth #5: “Wanting Love Makes Me Needy”
21:00 Shame vs. Magnetism: Why Desire Is Divine
22:08 ✨ Manifestation Debug Mode™
24:10 Questions to Uncover Old Relationship Programming
26:03 Download the New Reframe: “Love from Strength, Not Fear”
26:54 🧠 The Science of Love Frequencies
28:20 Oxytocin, Heart-Brain Coherence, and Neuroplasticity
30:44 Abraham Hicks & Dr. Joe Dispenza: The Vibrational Match
33:14 Visualization as Emotional Rehearsal
34:53 Guided Visualization: Future You in Love 🌻
38:14 Integration & Recap: Your Vibration Is the Signal
40:02 Final Reflections + How You Liberate Others by Liberating Yourself
41:23 Call to Action: Which Myth Hit You?
42:10 What’s Coming Next: Healing Myths & Spiritual Guilt